The importance of having clear vision

The most fundamental ingredient to success is having  clear vision. A crystal clear vision. Without this clear and precise vision, you are going nowhere. You could be the most capable, motivated, intelligent person in the world, but without a clear vision of what you want in life, you are never going to get to that point.

Think of it like this: the most experienced pilot with the best plane is not going to get to Mozambique without a map, he might make it to that area there eventually by flying around the world for a few days, but without the location or end point, he will not make it to the precise place he wants to be.

Whereas take the pilot who has the map, he knows where he is going, he knows that he is going to have to fly down along the east coast of Africa and therefore he will get to his location quickly and easily.

Once you know exactly what you want out of life, you can then map out a path from Point A (where you are) to Point B (where you want to be).

For example: I want to have a great body like the below. tumblr_n42iakaiVt1s1x0cvo1_540.jpg

This is my  vision. It is clear. And having a clear vision allows me to make a plan in order to get from point A (my current body shape) to point B (my vision). I know to get this body, I have to go to the gym, I have to eat healthily, I have to make sure I get enough sleep etc. These are my action steps in order to achieve the vision I have.

The take-away of this post is that without a crystal clear vision, you will never get where you want to be. As the above quote says: Decide what you want (your vision). Write it down. Make a plan. And work on it every single day. 

 

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The Binge Cycle

Binge-eating is one of the biggest struggles I and many other people face when it comes to getting healthy and dieting. But what exactly is binge-eating and what causes it. In this article, I will explore these questions and explain the binge-cycle bringing in my own experience of binge-eating.

Binging is linked both to restriction and emotional eating.

So take your average person, Jane. Jane decides she wants to lose a few pounds. She cuts out bread and sweets and skips her breakfast, eats a salad for lunch and comes home from work and is starving. She makes her dinner but is still not satisfied so she has a tablespoon of Nutella thinking to herself one spoonful is not going to make or break it. I have been good all day. But one spoon turns into three, and soon the Nutella jar is empty. Jane is then thinks “oh well since I have already messed up today, I might as well go the whole hog” and tomorrow will be a fresh start. She starts scouring through her cupboards to find food to eat. She ends up eating everything in the fridge and is then filled with an overwhelming sense of guilt and shame. Balance she figures. This idea of balance leads Jane to either (a) purge ie. throw up (b) overexercise to counteract the bad food eaten (c) restrict the next day what she eats. Maybe even a mixture of all three. This is how she controls the binge.

But then, a few days later, after so much restriction, she has a crappy day at work or school or university. Her boss gives out to her, or she has too much homework due, or she has an assignment due and she spots the Nutella jar and her willpower weakens for a moment and she finds herself in the same position. On the floor, digging into a tub of Nutella with a tablespoon. And so the cycle continues.

 

So how do you break this cycle: 

Firstly, remember everything is a habit. Binging is a habit. The first step in breaking a habit is figuring out the trigger. Take for example Jane. Her triggers are:

  1. When she is overtired
  2. When she has not worked out that day
  3. Boredom
  4. Stress
  5. Loneliness
  6. Leaving too long a gap between meals and being too hungry

Jane can eliminate triggers 1, 2 and 6 by ensuring she gets her 8 hours of sleep at night, working out daily and eating every three hours.

Jane can tackle the emotion driven binges by forming a new habit. Instead of eating to satisfy her emotional responses, she should (a) write down in a journal why she is feeling a certain way if she is lonely/sad (b) go for a walk and get out of the house and away from food (c) ring a friend to catch up. Forming these new habits will override the old habit of turning to food for emotional comfort. The more that you practise the new habit, the more it becomes a way of life and soon you will have lessened your desire to turn to food for emotional comfort, but instead will turn to a friend or a journal.

Overcoming binge-eating is not easy but it is doable. You may relapse, but it is how you deal with that relapse that is important. In short, do not restrict as this will cause you to fall into a binge-eating spiral, and secondly identify your triggers that lead you to binging. Once those triggers are identified, figure out how to break the connection between the trigger and the habit of binge-eating. 

I hope this was helpful, please leave comments below of your experiences and if you have any questions.

 

Working out: making it stick

Every year, you put it down on your to do list. Go to the gym, workout more, go to more spinning classes, start running etc and we get excited and we see all the people in the gym. But as the weeks go by, we see less and less people going. The once exceptionally busy gym becomes quiet again, the early rise and grind becomes sleep and snooze. That motivation disappears and once again you are back to square one. No change.

So how to make it stick. How are you going to keep this new year’s resolution when you are tired and its raining and the last thing you want to do is go for a run or go to the gym.

Well, there are many ways, but in this blog post, I am going to focus on one of many. And that is develop a love for sport. Crazy I know. But this is all linked into the push and pull of motivation. When you are trying to muster up the motivation to go for a run, instead of thinking ‘I have to go for a run otherwise I am never going to lose this weight and I am going to be fat forever’ think ‘I want to go for a run because I love the feeling of the wind in my hair, I love the feeling of being free as I run, I love the feeling of my legs working to carry me, I love the feeling of the release of the endorphins (those happy hormone).’

This change in mindset will not only (a) associate positive feelings towards working out but will also (b) create a sustainable change by making sport an enjoyable thing. Why the latter will help is as follows, if your sole source of motivation for working out is ‘oh I look fat and terrible and I need to get in shape’, what is going to happen when you do get in shape? What is your motivation going to be then. This is why so many people regain all the weight they have lost. Once you have your dream body, the motivation to work out is no longer there. But, if you create other reasons for working out that is not relating to your physical appearance, you will find that exercise no longer becomes a chore, but something enjoyable.

 

So in a sentence: Have positive and sustainable reasons for working out such as the release of endorphins rather than negative and unsuitable reasons such as losing weight.